Private · discreet · 18+
Get better dates, not more matches.
Getting attention on a dating app is not the same as attracting a man you would genuinely be excited to meet. If your profile brings the wrong attention, or not enough of the right sort, it is usually possible to see why — and to change it.
The real problem
Attention isn't the same as fit
Getting attention
Likes and matches are easy to collect and easy to misread as success.
Attracting the right men
A profile can be tuned to bring in more of the men you'd actually like, not just more messages.
Worthwhile conversations
The right first impression gives a conversation something real to work with.
Dates worth having
The aim isn't more dates. It's fewer, better ones, with men worth your evening.
The offer
Profile & Date-Fit Review
Tell me who you would actually be excited to meet. I'll look at whether your current profile is likely to attract him — and what to change if it isn't.
The review may include:
- • Profile first impression
- • Photograph selection and order
- • Written profile and prompts
- • Conversation hooks
- • 30-minute private consultation
Introductory price
£49
Online, throughout the UK
How it works
Three simple steps
Step 1
Tell me who you want to meet
A short description of the kind of man you'd genuinely like to date.
Step 2
I review your profile
A practical look at your photos, written profile and prompts against that goal.
Step 3
We decide what should change
A private consultation to talk through the findings and next steps.
A male perspective
A practical, straightforward view
Better Dates is built around a practical straight man's perspective on what does and doesn't land well with men on dating apps. It isn't a claim to speak for all men, and it isn't psychology — it's one experienced, honest point of view, used to help your profile represent you better.
About Better Dates
A practical male perspective on your dating profile
Founder details will be added here.
More about Better DatesConfidential by design
A private, discreet service
- Private enquiries, handled discreetly.
- 18+ only.
- No unnecessary personal information is requested.
- Online advice available throughout the UK.
- This is practical advice, not therapy or counselling.
Ready to see whether your profile fits?
Send a private enquiry and I'll come back to you personally.
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